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Violence Prevention

Violence Prevention Programs
Dean of Students Office
Virginia Solan
TLC 232-A
University of Idaho
Moscow , ID 83843-2431
Phone: (208) 885-0688

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Safety Strategies

Here are some safety tips that may be helpful if you are in a violent relationship, or if you have left the relationship. 

  • If you are in a violent relationship
    • Think of a relatively safe place in your home to go if an argument occurs. Avoid rooms with no exits (bathrooms), or rooms with weapons (the kitchen).
    • Keep a list of safe people to contact in a hidden, but easy to find location. If necessary, memorize important numbers.
    • Keep your cell phone charged at all times.
    • Establish a "code word” so that family, friends, teachers or co-workers know to call for help.
    • Plan how you will respond to your partner if he/she becomes violent.
    • Have a set of clothes and sets of important documents (savings account records, check books, safety deposit keys, birth certificates, school records, deeds, other legal documents) for yourself (and for your children) stored at a friend's house or at work in the event you need to flee your house.>
    • Take pictures of physical injuries resulting from the abuse as soon as possible.
    • If you have a protective order, carry it with you at all times. Make extra copies.
    • Trust your own judgment and intuition. If a situation is serious, you may choose to give your partner what they want in order to calm them down and temporarily de-escalate the abuse. You have the right to protect yourself however you see fit.
    • Remember you have the right to live without fear and violence.
  • If you have left the relationship
    • Change your phone number.
    • Screen calls and put a block on your number so that you can’t be identified.
    • Save and document all contacts, messages, injuries or other incidents involving the abuser.
    • Change locks, if the abuser has a key.
    • Avoid staying alone.
    • Plan how to get away if confronted by an abusive partner.
    • If you have to meet your ex-partner, do it in a public place.
    • Vary your routine.
    • Notify school and work contacts.
    • Call resources for further information and support.