Marriage
Marriage
Although the great majority of the female population were married at some
point in their lives, the writings by women which survive are
overwhelmingly those monastic women, who have never been, or were no
longer, married. Yet the universality of marriage in one form or another
is such that there are many texts which serve to flesh out a conception of
the changing institution emerging in law codes and theological writing
throughout the period. Marriage customs varied by region and marriage
patterns were modified by class. At the most general level marriage is a
social mechanism designed to regulate the distribution of women between
male members of society and to formalize the links between a man and his
offspring. In western Europe men have tended to have only one wife at a
time: serial monogamy. In early medieval Europe divorce seems to have
been relatively easy to obtain. A declaration before witnesses that a
husband or wife was divorcing his or her spouse was all that was
necessary. However, by the tenth century, marriage had changed from an
essentially private arrangement between a man and a woman and their
respective families, into a Christian and lifelong monogamous partnership.
The wife had to have useful kindred to cement political alliances, be able
to provide sons and heirs in sufficient numbers to ensure inheritance,
and, increasingly, to be a companion to her husband.
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